Civility.

Rhianna & Eminem;
President Regan & Tip O’Neil;
Oscar & Felix;
Snoop and Martha;
Balboa and Creed; and
RBG & Scalia.

We love unexpected friendships and ones that do not necessarily “make sense.”  We have two (2) theories on why these friendships exist:

1. The individuals involved overlook their differences and focus on their similarities; and
2. They appreciate their differences and are open to learning from one another.

One day in 2016, just as the extreme division in our country was becoming more even more evident, someone extended an invitation to engage in an open, candid conversation regarding politics and the overall state of the world.  Although perspectives and beliefs were fairly different, we spoke for hours, exchanging facts, experiences, feelings and perspectives. It is impossible to not recognize how rare these conversations are in the modern world and that is potentially one of the greatest differences between us and our forefathers.

Fast forward to July 17, 2024, just days after a former President of the United States survived an attempted assassination.  It is questionable whether calls for civility have been heard as key board warriors are still active and vicious personal attacks are still in effect.

How many of us can say that we have not lost friends over politics in the last 10-15 years? It is often not the actual difference in opinion, but moreso the inability to engage with an open mind, combined with a general lack of respect or common civility. 

One of the most beautiful, legendary friendships of all times is RBG and Scalia. We happen to post this newsletter a few years back about their friendship:
https://wjslegal.com/category/news/page/2/

If you have read to the end of this newsletter, THANK YOU.  We challenge you to think jump out of your own box, listen to commentators who you typically disagree with and to watch both “On the Basis of Sex” and  “Hillbilly Elegy.”*  

As always, we would love to hear from you regarding this or other matters. 

Warm regards,
Faye & John

** We are in our (Siskel and) Ebert era… both films are currently streaming on a major service and are EXCELLENT.